July 18, 2013

Lost a Loved One? How to Grieve & Make Arrangements

Filed under: Seniors — seniorlivingguide @ 11:25 am

Courtesy of Brionna Kennedy [brionnakennedy@gmail.com]

Experiencing the death of a loved one is something that most people will have to face at some point in their lives. This time is usually a very trying one, and family members need the support of one another. With all of this happening, you also have to figure out how to plan a funeral.

Contact Religious Figures
Most people have some sort of religion in their lives, so you can start by contacting a religious official in the faith of the deceased person. You might choose to have a funeral service at a house of worship or to have the official say a few prayers and words at the grave site. These individuals can also come to say a prayer at the hospital and to help your family begin to heal.

Planning for The Wake and Secular Funerals
Whether or not you are having a religious ceremony, it is always a good idea to contact your local funeral home to educate yourself about Lost a Loved One- How to Grieve & Make Arrangementsfuneral services. West Palm Beach experts say once you do, you will feel a sense of relief. Your loved one might have even made some end-of-life plans and left them with the funeral home. Working with the funeral director ensures that everything is going to be taken care of in a timely and efficient manner.

Know What The Deceased Would Have Wanted
If you are close enough to the person to be planning his or her wake and funeral, then you probably know this person really well. Consider what he or she would have wanted. Is this the type of person who would have preferred flowers over donations, or an individual who would want a casual wake? When you consider what the person would have wanted, you will feel close to this individual and start to heal.

Planning The Luncheon
In some traditions, the entire family and some friends go back to a restaurant after the burial. Picking out a catered affair when your loved one has just passed way can be extremely daunting. However, once again, feel the spirit of your loved one on your shoulder as you pick out menu items that he or she would have loved.

Accept Help
You are going to need someone to stand by you during this difficult time, and do not be afraid to ask for help. Instead of making all of the phone calls by yourself, ask your spouse or a sibling to help you out.

Grieving a loved one and planning a funeral at the same time is challenging, but it can be done.

Brionna Kennedy-twitterBrionna Kennedy is native to the Pacific Northwest, growing up in Washington, then moving down to Oregon for college. She enjoys writing on fashion and business, but any subject will do, she loves to learn about new topics. When she isn’t writing, she lives for the outdoors. Oregon has been the perfect setting to indulge her love of kayaking, rock climbing, and hiking.

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Host a Family Reunion: 5 Ways to Make it Memorable

Filed under: Seniors — seniorlivingguide @ 11:18 am

Courtesy of Kathrine Kreger [kathrinekreger@gmail.com]

For many families, reunions do not happen very often. With busy work and school schedules, people living all over the country, and the expense of having a gathering, most families do not get together as often as they would like. When a reunion does happen, it is important to make it as memorable as possible. There are a few things that the reunion host can do to make sure that every member of the family has lots of fantastic memories of the event.

Bring along lots of photographs

Nothing gets discussion going like looking at old photographs. Sharing photos makes identifying people in the pictures so much easier, and creates lasting memories. This is a low cost activity that everybody is sure to cherish.

Host a Family Reunion 5 Ways to Make it MemorableGames are always a great icebreaker

When people haven’t seen each other for a long time, shyness can be a problem. Also, for reunions that have many generations, it can be hard to find activities that can be enjoyed by all ages, from grandparents to grand kids. Board games give people a great excuse to talk to one another, and appeal to the competitive side of everyone.

Field trips can be fun for the whole family

Many family reunions suffer because people feel cooped up in a hotel or conference center. Getting out and exploring can add a spark to a reunion. Trips don’t have to be far. Just going to the nearest shopping mall or golf range can be a fun filled outing, and can prevent tensions from rising at the main reunion venue.

Keep things simple

Nobody wants to be stuck chopping food or doing dishes when the rest of the family is laughing and catching up with each other. Although it is not the most frugal option, many families think eating out is worth it, since they are able to spend more time with their loved ones. High end restaurants, catering delivery Fort Worth has many great dining options.

Prevent disasters before they happen

A hotel with dirty rooms or a restaurant with horrible service can create memorable moments, but they won’t be pleasant ones. If possible, visit the venues where the reunion will be held prior to the event. This way, things can be changed before they ruin precious time with family. This is especially important if family members have mobility limitations or other disabilities.

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